Is your ex still in love with you? There's a very simple answer - take a look in the mirror. What do you see? Do you see the same person your ex fell in love with, or is it some stranger? You see, how you act now may be the reason why your ex has broken up with you, and it may also be the reason why your ex is avoiding you.
In fact, as of right now, your ex probably still loves you a lot, and is attracted to you still, but there are a few things which are keeping your ex from showing this to you. Find out what they are by reading on...
o Who are you these days anyways?
You see, there's a reason why your ex left you, and it has a lot to do with you no longer being you. Maybe your ex isn't feeling the heat and the spark. Start working on it - go to the gym, get a makeover, get some new clothes, and start smiling.
Flaunt it in front of your ex, and if your ex is still in love with you, you'll hear the siren call.
o Actions speak louder than words
It could also be that you're just not putting in enough effort into keeping the relationship. Maybe you're so wrapped up in your career that you have no idea what's going on in your ex's life. Take a break from you office, and talk to some of your ex's close friends and family. Find out what's going on.
I can bet you'll be surprised by all the things you didn't know. Let you ex know that you care, and that your career comes second - behind your relationship. If your ex still loves you, then that should be a good icebreaker.
You could go one step further, and start actually doing the things your ex enjoys, instead of just letting your ex do them like before. If your ex loves to go for a morning walk, then start getting up early yourself. If your ex likes a particular restaurant or a theater, then start going there yourself.
o Be prepared to let go of the illusions
At this very moment, you probably blame your ex for many things, and you may think your ex is over reacting by ignoring your or treating you differently. These are all just illusions of fear created when you thought you may lose your ex forever.
You simply want an answer, but at this very moment, you need to let go of all of these insecurities, so that you can actually see what your ex wants, and how he/she feels about you.
The important thing is that your ex should know you care enough that you're willing to move out of your comfort zone and experiment with things that your ex likes. If your ex loves you, there's no ay you two won't be back together soon.
And this could also extend to your friends and social circle. Maybe your ex just doesn't like the life you lead. Are you willing to forgo all the things you enjoy - friends, house, neighborhood, family, and maybe even you job?
Sometimes love can only go so far, and your ex may have weighed all the problems against the love, and decided it wasn't worth it. You can make it easier - ask your ex to choose the life, and you can both keep the love.
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