If you have been through the motions of a breakup and have been asking your ex back, don't give up just because he or she hasn't said yes yet. You may think you've done everything, but have you really?
Perhaps you've done what most people do - plead and beg, and throw an entirely new personality over their heads just to attract their ex's attention. But have you thought about picking your ex's brain?
Yes, you heard it right. If an arrow to their heart didn't work no matter how many times you've aimed and shot, now it the time to aim in at their psyche. No decent person tells you to play mind games. After all, don't they seem sleazy? The new goods is, not all mind games are sleazy. Some actually work! Here are some below:
The "I'm not affected" game. If they're walking around with a new object of desire, don't run and hide. Put on the bounce in your step, walk over with your big genuine smile and say hello. You will most likely be introduced.
When that happens, find areas to complement about the new guy or girl. Then before you walk away, say to your ex, "What a cool person! I'm so happy for you. See you both around." Then smile and walk away proudly. Your ex will be so puzzled. You didn't even show one hint of jealousy.
The "Your friends love me" game. Finding it hard to get on your ex's good side? Befriend his or her friends. Do a little research before you do this. Get to know their interests, and work on great conversation starters.
Also, get to know their concept of what's cool and not, and just work on the cool stuff. Get you ex's friends to love you, and they'll be telling your ex he or she was stupid for ever letting you go.
The "Oh, I simply lost your number" game. Okay, maybe not that fresh. But basically, it's not calling, texting, or emailing your ex. Some people use technology to beg and plead, not realizing it's still irritating and nagging at some point. Never ever give your ex the satisfaction of hearing how much you need him or her.
Be nonchalant and easy-going. When they get in touch with you about something, resist the urge to get over-excited and dump emotions on them. Sometimes it's best to "forget" to reply. They'll wonder how fast you've recovered.
Finally, the "I'm still me" game. If you need an instant pick-me-up, go for a haircut or a massage. Contrary to what other people tell you, do not change who you are. You've got endearing qualities that made your ex fall in love with you before, so changing your personality would only make you appear desperate and hung up.
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